It is fair to say that many people are nervous about leaving their Thai girlfriend alone in Thailand when they return to the UK. It is quite understandable, especially if she was a Thai bargirl previously but it should be understood that not all Thai girls are the same. In reality, some girls from every country in the world cheat on their husbands or boyfriends and indeed Thai girls are no different but, like in every other country, not every girl cheats.
Many Thai girls are looking for just one man, someone who can take care of her and maybe her family for the rest of her life. The chances are that if she has a boyfriend that she really loves, she won’t want to jeopardise the relationship, and her future income by cheating on you. Lots of Thai girls work in normal jobs and idea of sleeping with many different men horrifies them. Others, as we are all aware, have no qualms about sleeping with literally anyone but you probably know your Thai girl better than anyone so really you should know!
If you did meet your Thai girlfriend in a bar, and there is no shame in that, did you ‘buy her out the bar’? If you didn’t, it probably means that she is still working there and as a result doing what she did before. Also, if you did ‘take her out the bar’, do you now support her? Has she got enough money to support herself and her family? If the answer is ‘no’, once again you probably know what she does when you aren’t around.
However, you could always look at it from her point of view. Is she jealous and does she worry about what you do when she isn’t around? The fact that you met her in a Thai bar perhaps raises concerns that if you went with her you might go with another girl. If you live in a different country this is quite a reasonable concern, especially if she isn’t really familiar with it. Maybe it is for this reason why so many people choose to take their Thai girlfriends back to the UK for a few months of the year.
Thai girlfriends can get a UK Tourist Visa which will allow them to stay in the UK for up to six months out of the twelve. If you are together this is likely to put both of your minds at ease and she will quickly feel far more secure as will you. The mere fact that she has come to the UK will also make her have more confidence in the relationship and she will feel that it is something that she doesn’t want to lose. This will hopefully make you have more faith in the fact that you can trust her.
If all works out for both parties you may start to think about moving your Thai girlfriend to the UK permanently. This will of course, mean that you will need to get married as she will only be able to live in the UK on a UK Spouse Visa. If this is something that you may be interested in and would like more information, call us on: +66 (0)80 102 2328, +66 (0) 38 420 313 or +44 (0) 20 8133 8059, email us on: firstname.lastname@example.org or alternatively contact us via our website.